Thursday, March 18, 2010




As I lay me down Heaven hear me now.

Im lost without a cause.

After giving it my all.

Winter storms have come and darkened my sun.

After all that I've been through. Who on earth can I turn to. I look to you.

After all my strength is gone. In you I can be strong. And when melodies are gone .

In you I hear a song. After losing my breath.....

There's no more fighting left. Sinking to rise no more. Searching for that open door.

And every road that I've taken ........ lead to my regret.

And I don't know if Im gonna make it. Nothing to do but lift my head and I look to you.

And when all my strength is gone. In you I can be strong.

And when melodies are gone. In you I hear a song.

My levies have broken, my walls have come.

Coming down on me......... crumbling down on me.

All the rain is falling, defeat is calling..............

Set me free ......... i need you to set me free. Take me far away from the battle.

I need you ................... Shine on me...................... After all my strength has gone in you.

I can be strong................... I look up to you and when melodies are gone.

In you I hear a song....................


I love you

Sunday, March 14, 2010

~Worry~


i am sick.
so sick of what is happening.
can someone tell me?
who is he/she/they?
what is it that you people want?
I don't know what to write today. Usually i can do so much
to light up my day by just writing
but ........

I tried to forget. and i am still trying, hopefully
i will get over it slowly.

Hubby said this:
"worrying can never stop an occurrence.
worrying does no good nor can it avert anything
that is destined to happen, rather it can be further
aggravated to be more disadvantageous to
a person if she only worries and does nothing better to make
her happy.
One has to adopt an objective attitude to all situations
likely to cause worries".

But HOW?




Saturday, March 6, 2010

~~Do you realize?~~



When a man finds a woman who supports him with her love, many of his fears and anxieties disappear.
His parents had given him little ground for recognizing his worth and capabilities, but now he is ready for the future.
If she loves me, I must be worth something.
With her, he can plan and face everything.

The girl who has found a man who loves her, is sensitive to her emotions and makes allowances for them, who appreciates her for what she is, even though she knows she is plain and homely, gains a sense of stability. When he entrusts himself to her, she realizes she is not only a sexual being,
but a person
.
It is doubtful whether the human race,especially the male, would remain in reasonable mental and emotional health.
Men, for all their muscles and aggressiveness, need women to support them.
In fact, men need women more to give them the support and motivation to go on with life the long and winding road of life.

Women are better equipped to suffer and absorb emotional shock. They weep more, but in the end, more men commit suicide because they couldn't take the pressure.
Women produce babies from their relationship with men, look after the babies, but they also look after men, most of whom after all, are grown-up little boys - as any woman will tell you.

Women are healed by being stabilized. When a woman is loved, she cares about everything connected to her relationship and puts up with anything for the sake of love. She will trust her partner to the end of the earth and be in telepathic communication with him all day long not until she found out
that he did something to kill that trust....

She bears his losses and adversities as if they were her own and, in doing so, supports him. The effect of a real successful relationship do not come automatically. We all have to work hard for us to get that effectiveness.
We must double our effort to maintain that love in our relationship.
Men and women at the same time have to get alive to boost that feelings of love for each other.

EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your partner.
You anticipated their call, wanted their touch and liked their unconventional behaviour or habit.


Falling in love is easy.
It wasn't hard.
In fact, it is a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
It is a passive spontaneous experience!!!!!
You didn't have to DO anything.

That is why it's called
"FALLING IN LOVE".

Falling in love..... humph..... some couples after a few years, the excitement (euphoria) of love fades. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a "BOTHER", " TOUCH " become less, seeing
each other lessen, giving many reasons to avoid each other, etc....
You will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage
when you first fell in love and a much duller subsequent stage.

There is lack of communication and sharing.
Partners tend to take each other for granted.
All he/she can only do is finding fault in the other party they already have,
when he/she should be perfecting the relationship.

At this stage, you might be asking yourself.

"Did I find the right partner?"
And as you and your partner reflect on the "EUPHORIA" of the love you once had......
YOU MAY BEGIN TO DESIRE THAT EXPERIENCE WITH SOMEONE ELSE

At this point, partners blaming each other for their unhappiness and look for someone new. Unfaithfulness is obvious. It is here when partners cheated. Having extra relationship.

But the answer to this problem DOES NOT lie outside that relationship. It lies WITHIN I'm not saying you cannot fall in love with someone. You could. YES but again you will only TEMPORARILY feel better. You'd be in the same situation a few years later. It will go on and on.

BECAUSE

THE KEY TO A SUCCESS RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON BUT IT IS LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU'VE FOUND AND CHOSEN.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to us. We can't find "LASTING LOVE". We HAVE to "MAKE" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "THE LABOR OF LOVE". Because it takes TIME, EFFORT and ENERGY. And most importantly, it takes "WISDOM". You have to know WHAT TO DO to make a relationship or a marriage work.

Make no mistake about "LOVE". LOVE is NOT a "MYSTERY".
There are specific things you can do
(with or without) your partner to succeed in your love life.

Just as gravity for the universe. Why is there gravity here? Why not for Mars, Pluto Saturn and other planets? There are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make it stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws into your relationship, the result will be predictable.....

Loving someone is indeed a "DECISION" you made, not just a feeling.

"God sends someone to walk into your life and it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let to stay and who you refuse to let go."

It is you who determine your destiny.
Destiny is something
that was meant to be.
Or is going to be.

Dedicated to all of you out there.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

~Love begets Love~


Love affects different people, differently.


Though love belies all reasoning, it is always helpful to be able to think clearly.


Whatever may be the worries, true love never seeks revenge. Never....


A person who loves has to remember two things:


First, love and loyalty


Secondly, Love begets love


If one gives love, one may be able to get love.


Lots of love


May

~Aimbition~

A life without aimbition is a ship without a rudder.
A few slum children are playing in the field.
Does anybody realize that one or two of them
are aimbitious who will make good and hit the jack-pot.
How could these two do it while the rest watched
with secret adniration?
They had their goals, their objectives before them and
were not affected by anything around them.
The brawls, the dissipation, the vulgarity, the gross
wastage of human existence under which the immortal
soul is oppressed, and similar other things were before
them every moment but their aimbition kept them
above these. They strove for opportunity and when
it did come they grabbed it and pulled themselves up.
in the midst of the deadliest despair they never lost hope.

~Today~


Today I smiled, and all at once things didn't look so bad.

Today I shared with someone else, a bit of hope I had.

Today I sang a little song, and felt my heart grow light,

And walked a happy little mile, with not a cloud in sight.

Today I worked with what I had and longed for nothing more,

And what had seemed like only weeds, were flowers at my door.

Today I loved a little more and complained a little less,

ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS

Life is what happens while you are making other plans.
A person of words and not deeds
is like a garden full of weeds.

It's better to be trusted than liked, Underpromise -Overperform.
The key to happiness and success is to have a dream.
All the flowers of tomorrow are in the seeds of today.
You always pass failure on the way to success.

You have to wake up in order for your dreams to come true.
Don't let lack of praise nip you in the bud.
The surest way to go broke is to sit around and wait for a break.
The only thing worse than an alarm going off is the one that doesn't.

An ego trip won't get you anywhere.
The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is just that little extra.
If you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain.
Count your age by friends, Count your life by smiles.

A natural tendency is to want to be understood rather than understand.
Don't prepare for rainy days without enjoying today's sunshine.
Keep your heart a little softer than your head.
Don't think there are no crocodiles just because the water is calm.

Stand for something or you'll fall for anything.
Growing old is when fun is a lot more work.
Never insult a crocodile until you've crossed the river.
If you don't lie down no one can walk on you.

If you think things improve with age attend a class reunion.
A good scare is sometimes worth more to a man than good advice.
Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.
We have two ears and one mouth, Think twice, speak once!

Experience is the best teacher because it's always on the job.
You're never fully dressed until you wear a smile.
It's what you learn after you know it all that counts.
The greatest mistake you can make is to be afraid of making one.

Happiness is the journey not the destination.
People with goals succeed because they know where they are going.
Does your employer consider you profit or overhead?
Look at life through the windshield not the rear view mirror.

To succeed do the best you can, where you are, with what you have.
Don't let your voice mail be "voice jail" to your callers.
A man without humor is like a car without shock absorbers.
Wisdom is what's left over after we smarten up.

Many people quit looking for work when they finally get a job.
About the only thing that comes to us without effort is old age.

Don't wait for your ship to come in swim out to it.
Every job is a self portrait of those who did it.

Talk less - Say more.
Love at first sight saves a lot of time.
Autograph your work with quality.
You can only control two things your attitude and your activity.

Remember, there's nothing more constant than change.
If you tell the truth sooner or later somebody's going to find out.
Experience is the one thing you can't get on easy payments.
Remember change and change for the better are two different things.
Be on the level and you won't go downhill.

All play and no work, does not work.
A goal is a dream with a deadline.
A liar needs a good memory.
Dream of worthy accomplishments and stay awake to achieve them.

The only place success comes before work is the dictionary.
You can be happy without needing others to agree with you.
You are not late until you get there.
Glory comes from daring to begin.

Have a back bone not a wish bone.
Give your troubles to God, He will be up all night anyway.
The greater part of progress is the desire to progress.
Happiness is the place between too little and too much.

Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
Destiny is not a matter of chance it's a matter of choice.
Your children need your presence more than your presents.
Each of us has two ends a sitting end and a thinking end,
Success depends on which we use.

Many spend half the time wishing for things they could have if they didn't spend half the time wishing.
For every person who climbs the ladder of success there are a dozen waiting for the elevator. Happiness is a choice not a response.
God works with you, not for you.

If your dreams turn to dust vacuum.
Do it now, you become successful the very moment you start.
People may doubt what you say but they will believe what you do.
Success -Don't do what you like, Like what you do

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

~For Hubby on your birthday~

How do I begin to tell you how honoured I am
To have you in my life?
I'll start by saying it was a dream come true
The day I became your wife.

You're my best friend in the good times
And my rock in times of sorrow.
You're the reason for sweet yesterdays
And my promise for tomorrow.

I never thought I could feel this loved
Until I became your wife.
You made this year and each other year

The best of my life.

The things we feel the deepest
Are the hardest things to say
But dear husband you must know
How much I love you anyway
And now that it's your 52th
I'm hoping you'll know too
How much I'm wishing happiness
With all my heart for you.

Lots of love

May

I pray that you will have many more birthdays.