Saturday, June 19, 2010

Missing


When something is missing in your life,

it usually turns out to be someone.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Trouble


Trouble is part of your life,
and if you don't share it,
you don't give the person who
loves you enough chance to love you enough.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

~~IN MY HEART~~




You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you,
but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach
because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.

Thursday, June 10, 2010



There's one sad truth in life I've found

While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Relationship

Why Do Relationships End?

Love is delicate. It needs to be cared for and nurtured if it is to last through time.
Just like friendships, relationships can fail if they are not given enough time and attention.
This is one reason why some couples might not last — perhaps someone is so busy with extracurriculars, friends and work that he or she has less time for a relationship.
Or maybe a relationship ends when people go separate places to work or study or take different career paths.
We tend to take each other for granted.

For some people, a couple may grow apart because the things that are important to them change as they mature.
Or maybe each person wants different things out of the relationship.
Sometimes both people realize the relationship has reached its end;
sometimes one person feels this way when the other does not.
A relationship ends when love fades....

Losing love can be painful for anyone.
But if it's your first real love and the relationship ends before you want it to, feelings of loss can seem overwhelming.
Like the feelings of passion early in the relationship, the newness and rawness of grief and loss can be intense — and devastating.
There's a reason why they call it a broken heart.

When a relationship ends, people really need support.
Losing a first love isn't something we've been emotionally prepared to cope with.
It can help to have close friends and family members to lean on.
Unfortunately, lots of people — often adults — expect younger people to bounce back and "just get over it."
f your heart is broken, find someone you can talk to who really understands the pain you're going through.

It seems hard to believe when you're brokenhearted that you can ever feel better. But gradually these feelings grow less intense. Eventually, people move on to other relationships and experiences.

Relationships — whether they last 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years, or a lifetime — are all opportunities to experience love on its many different levels. We learn both how to love and how to be loved in return.

Romance provides us with a chance to discover our own selves as we share with someone. We learn the things we love about ourselves, the things we'd like to change, and the qualities and values we look for in a partner.

Loving relationships teach us self-respect as well as respect for others. Love is one of the most fulfilling things we can have in our lives. If you have found that person, take great care of him/her for we never know what will happen tomorrow.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

49th birthday - 29 May 2010



Today is my birthday
29 May 2010
I am 49 years old
sweet... sweet 49 years
I thank God for giving me this wonderful life
My birthday without my papa this year and many years to come
BUT
I still have my loving mama
My forever supportive sisters...
Mag (Mulong), Joy (Kriket) & Mang (BUNTAK!)
My brothers, Bobein and Bujang
My longlai hubby, David
Children, abang Yen and the creative Davelyn and Dave
Nieces and nephews
Trina and Reno
Chaha not to forget

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I came back from church...
as i opened the door..
wanting to on the lights because the house was in total darkness.
i saw a huge figure near the door..
as if wanting to grab me...
I screamed and shouted
almost having a heart attack
due to the fact that ....
thinking my brother in law (Lester)
was a robber..
O my goodness...
It is a SURPRISE!
O my..........

Didn't expect this.....

O my...........

Thank you O my God for this wonderful evening.

Thank you

Davelyn, Andre, Marina, Mag, Maureen, Martin
&
Mama

Thanks also to all friends...



Wednesday, May 26, 2010

~~ Bye My Dear Friend~


Friends Until The End

We used to talk
We used to laugh
We were best of friends
I thought that’s how it would always be
You taught me so much
as a brother...
Told me exactly what to say
I wish it were still the same
But someday I know it will
Maybe not today
But we’ll meet up again
It won’t be long until I see your face
In Heaven that marvelous day
Eternal Rest grant unto Francis Junsan ... O Lord
And Let Perpetual Light Shine on him.
May he rest in peace.