If you can't be there......don't. Stop telling people that you will be there, It's better to tell people the truth up front. That way you can spare some feelings and you don't get caught in a bunch of lies/trouble.
Don't try to bring your grievances when you can't find witnesses to support it.
Don't go around to get attention from people.
People know who you are by now.
If you have something to say........say it or shut it. Don't go behind peoples backs. There is no reason to say it to someone else if you can't tell it to the person it's about.
If you want it.......go for it. Take a risk. Don't always play it safe or you'll die wondering.
If you love someone.......let them know. Anything could happen to you or the person so tell them while you have a chance. It could change everything.
If you're stuck.......make the best of it. There is obviously nothing you can do so whining and complaining isn't going to do anything-there is a difference between expressing how you feel and complaining. Put forth your best attitude and you just may get out of the mess......possibly with a different perspective.
If you're troubled........take time to think about it. Nothing good ever comes out of rash decisions. If it's important enough to trouble you then it's important enough to think about-think deep you'll figure out something.
If you are being taken advantage of.......let go. Get rid of all thoughts of the person. There is no reason to continue to surround yourself with the person who is taking advantage of you.
If you're going to criticize someone else........admit your own mistakes first. Everyone makes mistakes. But be aware of your own before you point out someone elses.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Friday, October 21, 2011
Happiness
"The True Meaning of Happiness"
Happy thoughts or positive thoughts are very important. There is power in our thoughts and we can shape our lives through them. We always say and think that we would like our lives to be like this or like that. Once we know what we want we can follow the path much easier. We are given the means to become what we want to become, it´s just that sometimes it is a bit difficult for us to see this. If you are true to yourself you can accomplish a lot.thoughts and we can shape our lives through them. We always say and think that we would like our lives to be like this or like that. Once we know what we want we can follow the path much easier. We are given the means to become what we want to become, it´s just that sometimes it is a bit difficult for us to see this. If you are true to yourself you can accomplish a lot .This stock of unhappiness at the depth of the mind keeps on multiplying as long as one keeps generating negativeness such as anger, hatred, ill will, and animosity. The so-called happiness that one experiences by having money, power, and indulging in sensual pleasures is not real happiness.It is very fragile, unstable and fleeting. For real happiness, for lasting stable happiness, one has to make a journey deep within oneself and get rid of all the unhappiness stored in the deeper levels of the mind. As long as there is misery at the depth of the mind all attempts to feel happy at the surface level of the mind prove futile. The scientific laws that operate one's thoughts, feelings, judgments and sensations become clear. Through direct experience, the nature of how one grows or regresses, how one produces suffering or frees oneself from suffering is understood. Life becomes characterized by increased awareness, non-delusion, self-control and peace. So practice being Happy.....
Happy thoughts or positive thoughts are very important. There is power in our thoughts and we can shape our lives through them. We always say and think that we would like our lives to be like this or like that. Once we know what we want we can follow the path much easier. We are given the means to become what we want to become, it´s just that sometimes it is a bit difficult for us to see this. If you are true to yourself you can accomplish a lot.thoughts and we can shape our lives through them. We always say and think that we would like our lives to be like this or like that. Once we know what we want we can follow the path much easier. We are given the means to become what we want to become, it´s just that sometimes it is a bit difficult for us to see this. If you are true to yourself you can accomplish a lot .This stock of unhappiness at the depth of the mind keeps on multiplying as long as one keeps generating negativeness such as anger, hatred, ill will, and animosity. The so-called happiness that one experiences by having money, power, and indulging in sensual pleasures is not real happiness.It is very fragile, unstable and fleeting. For real happiness, for lasting stable happiness, one has to make a journey deep within oneself and get rid of all the unhappiness stored in the deeper levels of the mind. As long as there is misery at the depth of the mind all attempts to feel happy at the surface level of the mind prove futile. The scientific laws that operate one's thoughts, feelings, judgments and sensations become clear. Through direct experience, the nature of how one grows or regresses, how one produces suffering or frees oneself from suffering is understood. Life becomes characterized by increased awareness, non-delusion, self-control and peace. So practice being Happy.....
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