Make Sure

                               


Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem,
first make sure that you are not. It is simply you are surrounded
with assholes or you choose to be surrounded.

On your feet

It's not how high you climb,
Nor how far you go............
The true measure of a person,
Is how high you bounce.
After you fall...
And whether or not you land on your feet.

Choice

There is a choice you make in everything you do. In the end, the choice you make makes you.

Unpredictable

Life can be so unpredictable, one minute everything is so good and then suddenly everything just turns around

Live Life To The Fullest

Live Life the way you want it 

because no matter what you do, 

people would never run out 

of things to say against you.

Have Gun Will Travel.

We must travel to know more about places

In our life.

There is a difference. Control is born from fear, not love. When raising children we need to provide 

guidance, boundaries and safety for them to flourish. We as adults have the same needs. When we 

love and care for someone we concern ourselves with their well being also. Many of us try to achieve

perfection in every aspect of our lives. This applies particularly to relationships. When we fail, we do 

not question our perfectionism we simply try to control even more. Perfectionism is nothing but a 

lack of trust, and lack of trust originates in fear. With raising children that fear is our concern they 

will not turn out to be the type of person that we want them to be. Often it comes from the worry that 

people will judge us not to be a good parent. Therefore, we put more time and effort into being the 

perfect parent. As adults, we transfer our need to be perfect on to our adult roles. We work hard to 

be the perfect employee, the perfect partner, and the list goes on.

It is hard enough controlling ourselves without the added burden of controlling others. I will let you 

in on a little secret, being the Policeman of the Universe is exhausting! Don't get me wrong, it is 

possible to have everything you want in your life. You simply do not get there by being controlling. 

Trying to control your life is like trying to control the weather. Look at the level of concern there has 

been on the lack of rain lately. The focus on lack caused worry not rain. The rain came when it was 

ready. Surrendering to that, trusting in that takes the pressure off.

Acceptance of life and acceptance of your circumstances 

releases the pressure. Trying to control everyone in an 

attempt to control every outcome does not lead to happiness.

 It stifles your creativity, and dims your light. If 

loved ones feel unsafe expressing their true selves, they 

will only do what everybody else wants. You will not get to

 see their magnificence just a projection of who they think 

you want them to be. Is that what you want? This may lead 

to a 'happy' home but it comes at a very high price as they

 lose themselves in the process. This is how 'people 

pleasers' are created. Many perfectionists are people 

pleasers themselves and feel burdened by having to be and

 do so much for others.

You can choose to let go of the attachment to the outcome. You can let your light shine

 and experience the freedom that comes with that. You can listen to your inner wisdom

 that tells you that no amount of worrying will have any bearing on the result. You can 

choose love not fear. You can choose a life free from anxiety and tension.